Marriage: Making The Right Choice. In life, one of the most important choices you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for a long, if you get it right then you will enjoy it forever.
A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important to the
extent that so many married people are hoping to be single again to be able to make the right choice all over again. If you are single please don’t just be in a hurry to get married, because you still have the best opportunity to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally, and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet?
You must look for a sincere and righteous man or a sincere and righteous woman to marry, nothing can beat this.
The devil’s primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can bring two wrong people together in marriage, then he will succeed in destroying your relationship with God, breaking the community ties and the nation down as a whole, and this is part of what we’re witnessing all over the world presently.
Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better, it’s not something you just jump into. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. You must pray before you choose.
God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God’s will when fornication is not involved. The moment fornication is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His Law that says flee fornication.
If you had been guilty in that area in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other, then you can seek forgiveness from God. Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable.
Don’t marry for sex, don’t marry because you are of age, don’t marry because you are getting old, don’t marry because you are lonely, don’t marry because you need someone to support you financially, don’t marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don’t marry because you don’t want to lose the person, don’t marry because of family pressures, don’t marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don’t marry because all your friends are getting married.
But get married because you want to fulfill what God has ordained on every one of His. Get married because you want to be a helpmate, but most of all, because you want to fulfill the purpose of making heaven. God will help you in
choosing, please let’s all continue to pray fervently to God for all we want.
Forward to all singles, you Know.
Marriage: Making The Right Choice
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